Friday, December 26, 2014

A Conversation With... Isis King and Janet Mock


Laverne Cox, Janet Mock Talk Stigma of Loving Transgender Women[Janet Mock: 'Shaming Men Attracted To Transgender...']

My reply:

On my myriad social networks, from the phenomenally popular Face-oogle-twit to the NSFW at a whorehouse (like Fetlife listed above) I always use my common-law–and now legal–name (Vallin SFAS to anyone who missed it). I am direct and adamant in my love, admiration, and attraction to transwomen. I am friends and lovers of many, and public in my sentiments. I am freely open to dating any transwomen with whom mutual desire is evident (You KNOW who you are. I’m in Decatur and Midtown ATL. Look me up!). If anyone has a problem with that, then YOU have a problem.

Paul and Lily Cole Discuss 'Hope For The Future' - Full Transcript |

Paul and Lily Cole Discuss 'Hope For The Future' - Full Transcript | "Guitar is interesting because you kind of cradle it. You kind of almost cuddle it. You hold it to you, and you play. That gives you a certain kind of feeling. With piano, you almost push it away. It’s just two different attitudes. I’m not sure whether the song is influenced by that, but the writing of it is."

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Wednesday, November 26, 2014

Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Tuesday, October 28, 2014


#MAXIMUMSEXANDROCKANDROLL!! = Romance, Respect, and Recognition. 
"Everything I've Ever Dreamed" (Lake/Sinfield)

Monday, October 27, 2014

The Creative Person...

The creative person is both more primitive and more
cultivated, more destructive, a lot madder and a lot
saner, than the average person.
                  - Frank Barron, Think, November-
                    December 1962

Saturday, October 4, 2014


LIEBESTOD: Your Pluto conjunct my 


ALL in Scorpio };) 

Me Siegfried; You Brunnhilde

Let's Rock-n-Roll!

Tuesday, September 23, 2014

Wednesday, September 17, 2014

New Technique for Jelquing/Penis Stretching

You should learn how to give yourself a mental orgasm (usually dry…unless you are especially gifted!). Imagine having your orgasm, then contract and thrust your thigh, ass, groin, and lower abs like you do when you orgasm, and breathe heavily; groan, even. I can do this without touching my penis, on the bus (quietly!), and even running/walking. It’s actually great exercise! You can fantasize or not.
Now add this mental focus to your jelquing/stretching routine. If I have time, I even masturbate to a or several edging/dry orgasms. Dry/semi-dry (small accidental cum-drops...which I lick) actually increase your energy and MAN-MOJO. Your thighs and lower muscles will feel invigorated, and your cock-meat will be engorged and throbbing for several minutes afterward. Great blood and energy flow technique—yes, it’s Tantric!

Tuesday, September 9, 2014

Sunday, August 24, 2014

I love you because

I love you because I love who I am when I am 

with you.


Friday, August 15, 2014

What friend-zone really means

Friend zoning someone who loves you is 


that you have nothing better to offer them than a 

real lover would. In effect, you're a lousy lover.

Sunday, July 27, 2014

Saturday, July 26, 2014

There is NO "Friend Zone"!

If I'm bringing this up, then I have already left the "friend" zone hell-for-leather-bound to LUV-land. 
YOU need to catch on, catch up, and catch a-fire. 
(This is an important game-change of perspective)

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Swingers: Mentally Healthier Than Monogamous Peers | Psychology Today

Swingers: Mentally Healthier Than Monogamous Peers | Psychology Today:

Swing-a-ding-ding. You KNOW Frankie did!

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Ah-so, Grass-hop-pahz...

Your Ancient Chinese Koan for today [bang a gong]:

Do bad guys (boys) REALLY watch videos/read books/blogs on how to be bad guys?

Do REAL Game Changers watch videos/read books/blogs on “Game”?

Sunday, July 13, 2014



The opening line of Janet Malcolm's The Journalist and the 

Murderer: "Every journalist who is not too stupid or too full of 

himself to notice what is going on knows what he does is morally 


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Friday, June 20, 2014

Tuesday, June 17, 2014

Thus Spake Clarke

Sound the A-flat, thus spake Clarke: "It may be that our role on this planet is not to worship God - but to create him." 
-Arthur C. Clarke

OOOOO, Pa-pi...eeeez soooo BEEEEG!

Women rate men with larger genitalia as more attractive: Ottawa study | National Post:

And since what science "proves"of course EVERY-body does, let the Vallin-mania begin! (I really did stumble across this looking up mania and hypersexuality):…

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Monday, June 16, 2014

Tuesday, June 3, 2014


[v.i.] When a sweet-young-th'ang with more hormones than chutzpah meets a su-pah-phreeaky Hoochee-Coochee-MOJO-MAXIMUMSEXANDROCKANDROLL-RockStar and gets totally anxious every time she's around him because she secretly desires him to bang-her-gong-all-night-long!

Thursday, May 1, 2014

Saturday, April 12, 2014

Zhank Heaven

Zhank Heaven for lee-tle boys
Who bee-cum beeg-ah
(Mes regrets au Maurice Chevalier, Alan Jay Lerner, and Frederick Lowe)

Sunday, April 6, 2014

I take exception!

Exceptions don't prove the rules; exceptions 

CHANGE the rules.

- (and I should know!)

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

International Transgender Day of Visibility: March 31, 2014

International Transgender Day of Visibility: March 31, 2014:

MORE of this will shorten the TDOR Memorials!

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Kiss Forever: The Rolling Stone Cover Story | Music News | Rolling Stone

Kiss Forever: The Rolling Stone Cover Story | Music News | Rolling Stone: "KISS is a brand, not a band. KISS is like a cockroach that will outlive you all...." -Gene Simmons

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Facebook Envy and the Transgender Woman - InfoBarrel

Facebook Envy and the Transgender Woman - InfoBarrel:

Article by Michelle Spicer. The IRONY is that radical 

feminists posing as enviable transwomen MUST 

conform to the cisgender-normative standards of 

almost model/movie star beauty. And not many rad-

fems fall in that category...without a LOT of 


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Center for a Stateless Society » Miley Cyrus And The Libertarian Renegade Culture

Center for a Stateless Society » Miley Cyrus And The Libertarian Renegade Culture:

And she is cuter than Rush!

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Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Friday, March 21, 2014

Sunday, March 9, 2014

Shame On You Transgender Edition : The Transgender Elite

Shame On You Transgender Edition : The Transgender Elite:      Have you ever been walking down the street and been read, judged valueless and relegated to the "Avoid in public" file by...

Article by Michelle Spicer, author of 'The Transgender Handbook'

Saturday, March 1, 2014

The Book Of Thoth - 4

The Book Of Thoth - 4: The Moon--In the system of the old Aeon, the resurrection of the Sun was not only from winter, but from night; and this card represents midnight. “There is a budding morrow in midnight”, wrote Keats.

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Friday, February 7, 2014

The Beatles - Live Empire Pool - 1965 + Presentation - The 8 Stages of 'Singles Awareness Day' Grief in Pop Songs - The 8 Stages of 'Singles Awareness Day' Grief in Pop Songs

Actually you can see my "cure" in my photo. My most devastating--and life-changing--"Big Crunch" happened between V-D (yes, I call it that)/SAD Feb. 1983 and Dec. 1983. My response was to change my name and devote my life to a project that forms my professional surname SFAS. One of my flagship songs is Emerson Lake & Palmer's "Pirates" that contains the verses: "And any other laden fancy, WE WILL TAKE HER BY SURPRISE; Come aboard my pretty boys; I will take you and make you everything you've ever dreamed!" And as a polyamorous polysexual, I've chased treasures, dragons, and jewels in some exotic portabellos };)!

Friday, January 17, 2014

Bruce Springsteen & Chuck Berry - Johnny B Goode (Live 1995)

Bruce writes an intro to Berry's Autobiography describing how they first played together at a club in the early 70's. What CAN I say?

Photo Gallery : Ultimate Party Bus

Photo Gallery : Ultimate Party Bus:


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GREAT IDEAS. This solves my Christmas Tree problem (I don't want to take it down). But...please turn off the engine!

Emerson, Circus 9-77

Emerson, Circus 9-77:

I've waited 36.5 years to read this because the particular issue of 'Circus' never reached the only newsstand in Rocky Mount, NC that carried it.

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